Human - Have I understood them ...

Psychology of a man or for instance human cannot be understood completely. It has so many constituent that make a complete psyche. Even a person him/herself would not be able to calculate correctly about behaviors’ of his for a particular situation.

Any constituent may dominate his feeling at that point in time. A person, generally thought as cool-headed man, may burst; and a person, who has developed his repo has short-tempered guy, may remain completely quiet.

It is said that human beings are made up of mud, and the other ingredients are fire, air and water. These four constituents can be seen in human behavior. For example, mud represents ground, humbleness – ain’t human beings humble? Fire – well ! haven’t we seen some in rage? Air – pride, above everything – don’t our family, friends, fellows sometimes act in a very proud way. I am this, I can do that kind of sentences aren’t alien to our ears. Water – adoptability, we (human beings) adapt to any situation and survive. We make our own way, just like water and we are cool.

At a glance we see that they are just opposite to each other – mud and air, water and fire – and this fine blend of contra elements have created very beautiful nature of ours.

So anything including possible and impossible behavior can be seen in any human. However, we can wrongfully, wrongfully and I mean it, estimate the chance of “what would be the behavior,” which even being expected may differ to 180 degree, i.e. just opposite.

Besides these material elements, we receive care from parents, family, friends, teacher that contributes towards our “character building.” The books we read, the TV shows that we watch, the interest that we take in different activities of life and the traumas that we went through in our life influences our mind set.

Thus, a human character, brain becomes so much complex and complicated that one cannot study it thoroughly. Besides, psychology is not a number game where we can precisely estimate about answers.

For example, I entered in a bout with my friend for the first time and we engaged in severe usage of kicks and punches and we were about to kill each other if we weren’t separated. Now second time, we develop the same situation what would I do. No, you cannot guess what would I be doing at that time? In fact, even I cannot guess what would be my reaction. I may start kicking his ass more severely and brutally then last time. I may just excuse him saying man go to hell I don’t want to fight. I may start counseling him, saying, hey man!! It’s not the right way, we are friends. I may just leave. May be something else I would opt there. You never know.